Friends with Kids

Friends With Kids

I was surprised how much I enjoyed this comedy romance. There was more to it than appeared on the surface. I was most impressed that Jennifer Westfeldt wrote, directed and acted in this delightful film. She plays the part pf the adorable Julie. She is in her mid 30’s and lives alone. Her best friend, Jason, lives in the same building several floors above. The two adore each other and spend a lot of time together. I became even more endeared to Julie when she gave a Nespresso coffee machine to Jason for his birthday. I have just become addicted to my new love for espresso coffee with this amazing machine. Jason and Julie are kindred spirits but just don’t love each other in a sexual way. They discuss the intimate relations they have with others. They spend a lot of time with two couples who are their great friends.
We first meet one couple madly in love without children. As the film progresses we see the deterioration of the love match as the demands of children takes over.
The other couple has a good marriage but their children take up all their time and energy and romance isn’t in the picture. Maya Rudolph plays the wife. She is very funny but also sad and touching. It will certainly hit home with many families.
Julie and Jason decide they would like to have a child together. They are best friends with each other. They respect each other and know everything about one another. They decide this would make for a good match in having a child. They agree to share all expenses and duties but maintain their own life style. They want to have a kid “without all the shit that comes with marriage.”
Their first sexual encounter was embarrassing and awkward for both but a lot of fun to watch.
It does lead to some good comedy. Jason falls for a beautiful young woman. Having a child around doesn’t really work.
Julie also meets a wonderful man who would appear to have it all. He is understanding and kind.
All the friends get together for a New Year’s weekend. It’s funny and you can’t help but laugh. Sparks fly everywhere. The problems in the marriages are so real and well portrayed.
The married couples start arguing. Julie and her man, Jason and his lovely new girlfriend join in the festivities.
It doesn’t take much imagination to figure how it will all work out.
The film is fun and very clever. It is easy to relate to the tension within the married couples. They don’t understand the Julie/Jason relationship. Their new dates also must have found the relationships very confusing.
Julie and Jason are adorable together. They know each other so well and communicate effectively in a positive way.
It is all predictable but so what. It works and it is entertaining.